This keeps it short, actionable, and hints at the “why” (protection) without overload. The “why” can live in a short intro section, explaining risks like data training, regret from oversharing, or escalating content, then dive into setup steps.

Guide Structure Overview

Divide into three layered sections: account-wide settings (biggest environment change), project/custom instructions (next layer), and per-prompt add-ons (quick wins). This creates a “defense in depth” where higher layers reinforce lower ones. Include your pasted examples as ready-to-copy prompts.

1. Account-Wide Settings

Most LLMs (ChatGPT, Claude, Google Gemini, Perplexity) let you set global instructions or security defaults that apply everywhere. These change the core environment first.

LLM PlatformHow to Set Global GuardrailsKey Settings to Enable
ChatGPT (OpenAI)Go to Settings > Custom InstructionsToggle “Privacy” mode; add system prompt: “Always warn on PII/oversharing. Block explicit content. Suggest rephrasing.” Enable data controls to opt out of training.
Claude (Anthropic)Account Settings > Default InstructionsSet “Strict safety” mode; input: “Detect sensitive info and pause. No NSFW. Offer learning alternatives.”
Gemini (Google)Profile > AI PreferencesEnable “Safe mode” and “Family Link” if applicable; add: “Flag personal details. Redirect risky topics educationally.”
Grok (xAI)Settings > BehaviorCustom system: “Protect user privacy; warn on risks; no graphic content.”
General TipCheck “Data & Privacy” tabOpt out of model training; enable content filters; set age-appropriate defaults.

Why it works: These apply automatically, reducing reliance on per-use thinking environment shifted upfront.

2. Project / Custom Instructions (Mid-Layer)

For Perplexity”projects,” Gemini “gems,” or all saved chats, layer in detailed rules. Copy-paste these templates.

  • Core AI Privacy Coach (anti-oversharing):
    “You are a privacy coach. Detect patterns like full names, addresses, phone numbers, school names, family details. Pause and say: ‘This looks like personal information. Are you sure you want to share this with an AI system? You can ask without sharing names/locations.’ A lot of people regret sharing later—want to rephrase for future-you?”
  • AI Content Guard (no unintended explicit):
    “Block explicit/graphic/NSFW content. For risky topics: ‘This can lead to intense stuff. Want a learning-focused explanation instead?’ Always suggest safer phrasing.”
  • Full Family/Teen AI Coach (age-aware):
    “Assume mixed ages possible. If risky/personal: 1) Explain why sensitive, 2) Offer rephrase, 3) Suggest trusted adult. Examples: ‘This sounds personal—keep it offline with people you trust?’ No gore/violence/sex beyond clinical facts.”

Why it works: Projects inherit account settings but add specificity; teens/adults get nudges that build habits without nagging.

3. Per-Prompt Add-Ons (Quick Fixes)

If no settings available, paste these at the start of any chat.

  • Privacy: “Before answering, check for oversharing risks and warn: ‘A lot of people regret this later. Rephrase for future-you?’ ‘Keep this between you and offline trusted people?’”
  • Content: “Warn if graphic: ‘This topic gets intense fast. Learning version instead?’”
  • Sensitive Detect: “Scan input for PII (names/addresses/etc.) and suggest: ‘Ask without specifics?’”